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3 Tips When You Want to Win Back Your Woman
By Otto Collins

Jeff is ready with flowers, candies, love poems and more. His girlfriend broke up with him a couple of weeks ago and he’s determined to win her back.

The first days after she told him that she wanted to stop seeing him were horrible for Jeff. He had no appetite and he could barely concentrate on anything at work or home. His friends tried to distract him and cheer him up, but nothing has worked.

Finally, Jeff got over the initial shock of the break up and now he’s willing to do whatever it takes to win back his woman. He still can’t understand why she’d want to leave their relationship.

If you want to win back your woman, you might be ready to do whatever it takes, just like Jeff. However, before you start to send those flowers and cards, I advise you to take some time to think about what you’re doing.

Pretending that there were no problems in your love relationship or marriage– or that your problems can be swept away with some gifts and romantic words– will not help you or your ex in the long run.

This certainly won’t win her back either.

Instead, try these 3 tips…

#1: Ask yourself this question: “Is this wise?”

I understand. You love this woman. She was the light of your life. Now, you want all of that back. You want her back in your life and in your bed.

There is a huge difference between what you want and what is in your best interests. Really assess what happened in your relationship together and also what is going on now for both you and for your ex.

Continue to ask yourself “Is it wise to try and get back together with her?”

You both might still care about (and love) each other very much, but there could be some reasons why it’s not in either of your best interests to reunite.

Some reasons might include: addiction issues, one or both of you are in new relationships, uncontrollable anger issues, abuse (emotional, physical, sexual), infidelity, inability to forgive infidelity and more.

I can’t give you a finite list of what’s “wise” and what’s “unwise.” This has to be determined by you. What is most important is for you to ask yourself that question.

#2: Take an honest look at your ended relationship.

If you decide that it IS in your best interests to try to win back your ex, before you set out to woo her, take some time to learn from the past. I never recommend that a person live in the past or become fixated on what happened in the past.

At the same time, it’s helpful to understand the personal and relationship habits that contributed to you and your woman becoming disconnected and then breaking up.

Try to recall what happened as if you were an observer looking in on your ended relationship. Take note of the specific habits that played a role in the distance that drove you two apart. Pay particular attention to areas such as communication, trust and intimacy.

This isn’t about figuring out who was to blame for your break up. It is about gaining a clearer understanding of what happened and being willing to try some different things in the future.

#3: Make amends and be open to creating agreements.

If your woman is willing to explore getting back together with you again, be sure to make amends for your share in the problems you two had in the past.

You can let her know that you want to start fresh with her, but that you also are willing to acknowledge you role in past hurts. If you are making apologies, make sure they are genuine and from the heart.

As you two spend time together, be on the lookout for you both falling into those disconnecting relationship habits. When something starts to develop, suggest an agreement that will help take you two in a different direction.

Otto Collin teaches men the secrets to lighting up their woman and offers men’s relationship advice. For Otto’s free report: “The 10 Biggest Relationship & Passion-Killing Mistakes Men Make and What To Do About Them” when you sign up for his FREE relationship advice newsletter for men at www.LightHerUp.com  

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How to Win Her Love – Tips to Make Just About Any Woman Fall in Love With YOU
By Chris Tyler

For most people, love tends to be one of those really complicated things that just seems to either happen or it doesn’t. This seems to be especially true for the average guy, as we all have been in situations where we thought that we were doing everything just right and assumed that the woman we desired would have to fall in love with us, only to find out that is just not the case. Is that the way that it has to be, or is there something or some things that you can do to kind of make sure that you do win over the woman you really want to be with?

Here are some tips on how to win her love that should be able to make almost any woman you want fall for you:

1. You have to draw out of a woman what qualities she values most so that you know what to emphasize about yourself.

This is why you really need to be a good listener and pay attention to what a woman is saying, because it is almost inevitable that if you get her talking and you ask the right questions, you will be able to get a good idea of the things that attract her the most in a guy. Some guys seem to gloss over the listening thing, but if you really want to get clued in on what she desires most in a guy and what she responds to the most, get her talking and pay attention to what she is saying.

2. You also have to make a woman feel like she has to find a way to win YOU over.

Way too often, guys will pursue love like it was a one way street. What I am saying is, they do all of the pursuing, the chasing, and they never give the woman the opportunity to do the same. Well, you can’t really expect a woman to fall in love with you if you are the only one that is doing all of the chasing and the pursuing, can you? As much as you want to win her over, she needs to feel the same way.

3. There has to be sexual chemistry and attraction between you and the woman you want to win over.

What happens when there is a lot of affection and attraction on the guy’s part and only affection without attraction on the woman’s part? You get one of those friendships where the guy really wants to be her boyfriend and she never, ever feels that way at all. If you do not want to go through that experience, then you NEED to spark some sexual chemistry and attraction with her.

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Is Your Butt Too Small to Win Your Man?
By Catherine Behan

$848,000,000 was spent on Shapewear by American women last year. $848 MILLION.

What if that very fashion accessory is KEEPING YOU SINGLE?

Today on the CBS Morning Show there was a feature on a segment of that market, the Booty Boosters. Apparently, the Butt is the ‘”It” factor in sex appeal this summer…no kidding! According to the report, Beyonce and Kim Kardashian are making big money showing off their full, curvy butts and women all over the country are buying butt pads to enhance their booties.

How is this hurting your soul mate search?

The problem is that at the end of the day, you will be taking off your faux butt, taking out your contacts, peeling off your Spanx, sponging off your eye makeup and in every way being your true physical self with your man.

If you want to attract True Love, there is only one way and that is to fully accept yourself….just the way you are, right now. I don’t know a single woman who doesn’t dislike at least one part of their bodies. How about you?

Are your teeth too yellow? This is my personal challenge. Even tooth whitening doesn’t help. Yes, the treatment lifted my color two to three shades but that is not enough to please me. It doesn’t help that NOBODY on stage and screen has ‘normal’ colored teeth anymore. Don’t believe me? Watch a movie from the 70?s and look at the smiles.

Maybe you wear glasses and over depend on your contacts for your sense of self worth. Do you feel ugly with your glasses on?

Is your hair your challenge? Too curly, too straight, too frizzy, too little of it, too much of it? Do you know that people spend over 2 trillion dollars on hair care products and services in one year?

Maybe it is your height that bothers you. Is it near impossible to meet a man who is tall enough for your preferences? Do you dislike being so short?

Maybe you hate your feet, your freckles or your facial hair.

The botox business is booming and don’t get me started about plastic surgery. Imagine how much travel you could pay for with the money you are spending to create an image you hope will attract Love and Connection.

What’s a body to do?!?

There is nothing wrong with enhancing and preening and preparing yourself to be noticed. Illusion is fun and an important part of seduction and romance. Women have been using cosmetics and jewelry for thousands of years to attract a man’s attention.

The woman who get what she wants….a lasting relationship with a man who adores her, is the woman who knows the biggest secret of all.

She knows that the Truth of her attraction is her ability to accept herself…warts and all. She knows that her external appearance is but a glimpse of her full Essence. She understands that at the end of the day, a man wants to come home to someone who accepts him completely.

It is a humbling experience to feel deeply accepted by another human being….with no strings. When you know you can offer that to a man, you are irresistible. The best way to practice this magical attraction tool is to use yourself as a test bunny. Write a list of all of the things that you don’t like about yourself. How many do you come up with?

If you only have 1 or 2, yay! You are a role model for others and you no doubt have many friends and colleagues who enrich your life right now. Even if you are still single, you are probably pretty content with your status right now.

If you have 4 or 5 flaws that bother you, you are about average. You may find support in 12 step groups or a Course in Miracles Class. Make a plan to cut your list in half. Make a conscious effort to accept yourself at a deeper level than you have. Your loneliness and isolation are directly related to these aspects that are draining you.

If you have over 7 personal issues that you dislike about yourself, I suggest you find a mentor, coach or counselor. It is exhausting to carry this much self-criticism. Believe me, no one notices whether your freckles are getting darker or your feet have a strange shape. What makes a man feel great with you is his CONNECTION to you. If he feels like you “get him” he will adore you. The few ‘flaws’ that you have and are trying to cover up are keeping True Love just out of your reach.

Next time you want to buy something new to enhance your Outer Look, look in the mirror and ask yourself…”Will this help me accept myself or hide myself?” This simple question is a powerful step in tuning in to your true identity. It is who you REALLY are that is irresistible to that special someone!

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Break Up Advice For Women – Dating After Divorce
By Suzy Weiss

There are a lot of break up advice for women out there. If you have just come out of a failed marriage and want to overcome this predicament, then you need to take actions and move on with your life.

It can be very painful whenever you go through a divorce. If you have been married for a long time and then suddenly it came to an end, the feeling you would experience is far more devastating. As a matter of fact, the longer the relationship is, the more bothersome the consequences can be, but here are some advice in getting over the break up of your marriage that can help you overcome one of the most unpleasant circumstances in your life.

Cut off all communication. This is a very important break up advice that you need to follow. Immediately stop all personal contact with your ex husband. No good will come out off it, and it would only make you feel worse than before.

Do not get into a relationship rebound thing. Just because you meet a guy who understands what you are going through and is helping you cope up with your situation does not mean you should hook up with him. What you should do instead is talk to family members or friends, and set your priorities straight.

Never look back. You can go on and cherish all the wonderful times the two of you spent together, but that’s it. You need to move on with your life. Appreciating the positive emotions you had felt for your ex and then moving on is one way for you to deal with this situation.

Cheer up and lean on your friends and family for support. It is an excellent idea to hang out with your friends once in a while so that you would not feel lonely. You can also talk to your parents or other family members for encouragement during these difficult times.

Do the things you love to do. You can see a movie, go shopping or visit places you love. Don’t just sulk inside your house as this can only make things worse. So, you need to go out there and let the warm rays of the sun and cool breeze freshen you up. This is also an effective method to help you fight feelings of depression.

Take up a hobby or anything you find interesting. It is a known fact the doing something you like is a great stress reliever. Whenever you simplify things and start seizing every little pleasures that life has to offer, you are experiencing life again. This is an important factor if you want to move on.

Bury yourself in work. Keeping yourself busy will allow you to forget your failed marriage. It can also get rid of negative feelings inside your head, but if you don’t like this idea, you can do the opposite instead. Go on a short trip or vacation. Once you come back, you would completely be rejuvenated. These are some of the excellent break up advice for women that you should definitely consider. Of course, you can go on dating again, but only after you have accepted the reality that your marriage is over and have already moved on with your life.

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In any relationship, naturally open communication is vital, and if it were used more often, in the correct spirit of good cooperation, we probably would not be in the position that we now find ourselves. However, I am concerned that we may be opening ourselves to a problematic issue if we attempt to discuss everything too soon. What does this mean? and what can you do about it?

Essentially, when you are on your date with your ex, it is best to make a point of discussing mutually fun things and topics that are neutral. In the event that a topic relating to the reason of your breakup comes up, it is best managed by suggesting tat you understand these are important issues, but you would prefer to talk about them on another occassion. Of course, you both know that the topic will need to be canvassed, but at the same time, you may as well be as neutral as possible.

Essentially, it is about being as sensitive as possible, recognising that you need to manage these points of discussion, but if you’re having a good time, why spoil it?

After all, you have put a lot of effort into organising this date, and others like it. You may well have been very patient, and taken a number of months to reach this point. On that basis alone, it would be stupid and foolhardy to attempt to cram too much in too soon.

I really know the feelings of intensity that can be flowing through you. However, please be patient. It will pay off, as you rebuild your relationship.