How to Win Her Love – Tips to Make Just About Any Woman Fall in Love With YOU
By Chris Tyler

For most people, love tends to be one of those really complicated things that just seems to either happen or it doesn’t. This seems to be especially true for the average guy, as we all have been in situations where we thought that we were doing everything just right and assumed that the woman we desired would have to fall in love with us, only to find out that is just not the case. Is that the way that it has to be, or is there something or some things that you can do to kind of make sure that you do win over the woman you really want to be with?

Here are some tips on how to win her love that should be able to make almost any woman you want fall for you:

1. You have to draw out of a woman what qualities she values most so that you know what to emphasize about yourself.

This is why you really need to be a good listener and pay attention to what a woman is saying, because it is almost inevitable that if you get her talking and you ask the right questions, you will be able to get a good idea of the things that attract her the most in a guy. Some guys seem to gloss over the listening thing, but if you really want to get clued in on what she desires most in a guy and what she responds to the most, get her talking and pay attention to what she is saying.

2. You also have to make a woman feel like she has to find a way to win YOU over.

Way too often, guys will pursue love like it was a one way street. What I am saying is, they do all of the pursuing, the chasing, and they never give the woman the opportunity to do the same. Well, you can’t really expect a woman to fall in love with you if you are the only one that is doing all of the chasing and the pursuing, can you? As much as you want to win her over, she needs to feel the same way.

3. There has to be sexual chemistry and attraction between you and the woman you want to win over.

What happens when there is a lot of affection and attraction on the guy’s part and only affection without attraction on the woman’s part? You get one of those friendships where the guy really wants to be her boyfriend and she never, ever feels that way at all. If you do not want to go through that experience, then you NEED to spark some sexual chemistry and attraction with her.

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Naturally, dating an old flame, or ex partner has its good points, but there are also areas that need to be considered in terms of ensuring you both remain on the right track. I say this, as it is important to not have a repeat of your last breakup.

Whilst there are no hard and fast rules, I hope to point out some ideas and recommendations to ensure your success in this endeavour.

I know only too well how those sinking feelings of desire, wanting and hope all roll into one when you are looking at getting back with your ex partner.

However, when we look at some simple points, and remember to apply them, we can massively improve our chances of success in this whole dating game.

Success in Dating Your Ex

When you first manage to get on a date with your ex, your first thought may well be along the lines of how good it is all going, and when you will next be able to meet…

However, your over enthusiasm can actually be your undoing, so you are best advised to take it easy, Seriously, being too keen, and impatient can actually blow up in your face. Sorry to be so direct about it.

Asking About The Next Date

You may remember, from previous posts on this site, that I have recommended it is important to keep the initial date very short, specifically so that you do not cross that initial ‘happiness’ point where you could become too familiar too quickly. That is a bad thing, and it is therefore best to keep the dates short, and hoping not to sound too clinical, undetailed and emotional.

I know it sound awful, but this is a process where you have to grit your teeth and stay cool, as it were. Time is key here. Be cool, and almost non chalant. This will see you through. The minute you may seem too dersperate, you have lost in this game. Sorry to sound so clinical about it, but it is true.

My point here is that you should not in any way schedule another date, even if you are happy with the way it has gone. This will tend to crowd your date, and that is not good at all.

On the other hand, if your ex partner asked you, then that is a different. However, still be cool, and not too eager too quickly.

I am being cautious, so as to prevent you getting excited too quickly. You want to move in the right way, and take your time on this.

Whenever you go through a difficult time, I can assure you that time does heal all. I also know you may well not see this at first, but it does make a difference, and I assure you that you do see the results you want, given time.

Learning from the Past

Irrespective of what may have happened, it is always a good idea to reflect on the events that lead to the breakup, and therefore, know what to work and improve on. Please note I am not suggesting that this be used as negative, self sabotage, but rather, as as platform to improve yourself. I know it is a fine line, but I think still very important to realise the difference.

The reason I have been ‘labouring’ this point is that when we are content and satisfied in ourselves, as to the people we are, we are more immune to any rejections that may occur outside of us. We all have feelings, desires, goals, hopes and dreams, and we need to ensure we are always working on them and our improvement.

It is for this reason that I am passionate about anyone who is recovering from a relationship breakup to ensure they are looking after themselves,a  and thus ensuring they are as attractive to their potential new partners as possible. Essentially, the idea is to ensure you are always at your very best. You deserve the best, and are maintaing your forward projectile to success and happiness. I know it sound a little full on, but regardless of weather you rejoin your ex or meet a new partner, you will be better able to move forward on your best foot.

Well, we actually have a number of questions to answer here, so I will do my best to do  so one at a time…

If You are a Man:

Normally, I suggest that it is advisable to hold off on the sex until you are more committed, as by the very act of sex, you are allowing massive emotional issues to potentially arise. On the other hand, it can strengthen and bond an already commited and deep relationship.

I would like to point out that I am not taking any moral side here, but am rather more interested in helping you in relation to getting back with your ex partner. Allowing for the fact that you have made a greater degree of inroads, and are now more able to relax, and be yourself with your ex, I suggest that you recognize that from the woman’s point of view, having sex is about commitment. It is in most cases, not about just a one night stand.

Putting this another way, for a woman to haver sex with an ex, it is about her being back together with you. Naturally, this will require some commitment on your part, and a desire to get t know and care about her.

Now, recognising this, in order to get back to a point where you can have sex with her, you need to make up an excuse to get back to a suitable environment. She will know subconsciously that you want the sex, but there still needs to be a plausible excuse for getting back together. Hence you might consider  something like agreeing to go back to your place to watch the newest DVD movie that you think she might enjoy.

If You Are a Woman:

Naturally, as a woman, you are interested in a commitment, and do not wish to play around with casual sex. After all, you are smart, and don’t want to be manipulated.

However, you do also know what is going through your ex’s mind, but are interested to know how to proceed.

One thing that you can consider is keeping the mystery on, and keeping your ex on his toes. One way to consider this might be to actually say that you are not interested in casual sex. This is a much better way to keep your man on his toes, and make him work a little harder. At this point, if he is interested, he will be more likely to ‘work’ with you and display greater seriousness.

I know it seems manipulative, but this is one way to establish your position, and see where you are really heading.

Ultimately, if it looks like you are both heading in the right direction, that is fantastic. I still recommend taking it relatively slowly though.

In the event that it really is looking a little shaky, you are best off taking some time out, even if it is a small holiday. Essentially, you need to look after yourself. As I have said earlier, It’s about you looking after yourself, for you to be your best and attractive for others as well.

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When you have your date with your ex partner and reconnect with your partner, it is important to ensure that you only spend a little time together, take it very slowly, and do not in any way over plan for your future. I know the temptation is there to actually run head first into getting on with life, as it were, but this must not happen, under any circumstance.

Control the Re Ignition Dating Process

I know it’s a fancy title, but seriously, it is important to ensure that you are very gradual, and outwardly casual, as well as enjoyable to be with. It takes effort, but it can be done, In fact, when handled correctly.

Always ensure that you are fun to be with, and make sure that you are showing subtle hints of attraction and interest or caring.

Let me explain this…

Subtle Caring Technique

The idea here is to ensure that you are not too quick here. Give the date some time, and then, if it is appropriate, flick away an imaginary crumb, or even a blowing hair. Anything that is subtle. When you are preening some one else, it gives an unconscious signal that you care, and are aware of their feelings and emotions. I know it may sound a little cheese, but by being very subtle, you can show your ex that you care. However, please ensure you are subtle, and only do it once. The key here is to be very gradual with your making up process, so you are not too obvious, and in their face.

The idea is to be very controlled. I know that inside, you may well be absolutely dying of anticipation, and wanting to know where you stand, but ther secret is to be very slow, and controlled.

Give it time, and you will see results.

Also, at the end of the date, I recommend you are not too abrupt about organizing another one. It is best to leave that, and just ensure you make a mental note to call them a week or so later. If you are too keen, you will scare your ex partner away.

If you happen to be the woman, and are interested in further information on calling your man, I recommend the book on Calling Men. It is an insight for you to consider ways to approach the process for best effect and result.