When Meeting a New Girl…

Be careful not to stick around for too long when talking to girls.
You need to keep them on their feet, wondering whether or not you
even like them sexually.

So, if a conversation with a hot girl starts to dry up and
you feel it’s easier to walk away and talk to
someone else, that’s what you should do.

It shows that you’re socially intelligent and not just
focussing on her and her social needs.

Later on, when you talk to the hot girl again, her opinion
of you – as a confident, dynamic guy – will have been reinforced by
your earlier departure. As a result, she’ll now feel more attracted
to you and the idea of talking to you again.

Often the right things for the right situation involve doing
something that is totally counter-intuitive.

In fact, often whatever your head is telling you to do, you should
dot he opposite… Most guys do the same things with women and when
a guy comes along who does the opposite of what she expects, she
gets a deep surge of attraction – as long as what you are doing
are the right counter intuitive things… For exactly what do say
and do, and more importantly what not to say and do – to seem -
spontaneous and somehow “different” from those other guys, check out:

Seduction of Women…

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When you talk to women, make sure you don’t speak too quickly or
too slowly.

Rushing through your words makes you look scared that
you’ll lose the girl’s interest, while speaking too slowly can
indicate that you’re unsure of what you’re saying and worried
she’ll judge you for saying the wrong things.

So, just focus on speaking at your regular speed, just as you do
with your male friends.

When you successfully do this, you demonstrate to women
that their presence and/or beauty doesn’t affect you or the way you
think.

You’re independent and self-secure. And THAT’S what they
ultimately find sexually attractive.

NOTE >>> For more tips to make your voice sound deeper, more manly
and actually generate attraction, simply by talking, regardless of
the words you say, visit:

Black Belt Seduction Here…

In any relationship, it comes as no surprise that it is imperative to be truthful, and open at all times. Whilst there can be infinite debate about the small white lies, like buying someone a gift and hiding it and so on, I think we can safely say here that we are talking about the importance of keeping an open line of communication with our partners. Lying is about destroying the intimate bonds that make a couple special.

Lies and Relationships

In any relationship, we might get away with the odd lie now and again, but in line with long term health from a relationship point of view, we need to ensure that we are open, honest, and integrity based. This is a natural requirement for all of us to follow through on.

I know that this can be a shaky subject but if you have a partner whom you are suspicious of lying to you, you deserve to know what is going on.

Whilst I am not suggesting you become  a detective, there are processes to be learned to pick lying if it is going on.

In any relationship, naturally open communication is vital, and if it were used more often, in the correct spirit of good cooperation, we probably would not be in the position that we now find ourselves. However, I am concerned that we may be opening ourselves to a problematic issue if we attempt to discuss everything too soon. What does this mean? and what can you do about it?

Essentially, when you are on your date with your ex, it is best to make a point of discussing mutually fun things and topics that are neutral. In the event that a topic relating to the reason of your breakup comes up, it is best managed by suggesting tat you understand these are important issues, but you would prefer to talk about them on another occassion. Of course, you both know that the topic will need to be canvassed, but at the same time, you may as well be as neutral as possible.

Essentially, it is about being as sensitive as possible, recognising that you need to manage these points of discussion, but if you’re having a good time, why spoil it?

After all, you have put a lot of effort into organising this date, and others like it. You may well have been very patient, and taken a number of months to reach this point. On that basis alone, it would be stupid and foolhardy to attempt to cram too much in too soon.

I really know the feelings of intensity that can be flowing through you. However, please be patient. It will pay off, as you rebuild your relationship.

Naturally, dating an old flame, or ex partner has its good points, but there are also areas that need to be considered in terms of ensuring you both remain on the right track. I say this, as it is important to not have a repeat of your last breakup.

Whilst there are no hard and fast rules, I hope to point out some ideas and recommendations to ensure your success in this endeavour.

I know only too well how those sinking feelings of desire, wanting and hope all roll into one when you are looking at getting back with your ex partner.

However, when we look at some simple points, and remember to apply them, we can massively improve our chances of success in this whole dating game.

Success in Dating Your Ex

When you first manage to get on a date with your ex, your first thought may well be along the lines of how good it is all going, and when you will next be able to meet…

However, your over enthusiasm can actually be your undoing, so you are best advised to take it easy, Seriously, being too keen, and impatient can actually blow up in your face. Sorry to be so direct about it.

Asking About The Next Date

You may remember, from previous posts on this site, that I have recommended it is important to keep the initial date very short, specifically so that you do not cross that initial ‘happiness’ point where you could become too familiar too quickly. That is a bad thing, and it is therefore best to keep the dates short, and hoping not to sound too clinical, undetailed and emotional.

I know it sound awful, but this is a process where you have to grit your teeth and stay cool, as it were. Time is key here. Be cool, and almost non chalant. This will see you through. The minute you may seem too dersperate, you have lost in this game. Sorry to sound so clinical about it, but it is true.

My point here is that you should not in any way schedule another date, even if you are happy with the way it has gone. This will tend to crowd your date, and that is not good at all.

On the other hand, if your ex partner asked you, then that is a different. However, still be cool, and not too eager too quickly.

I am being cautious, so as to prevent you getting excited too quickly. You want to move in the right way, and take your time on this.